A switch expresses the majority of their personality hence their sexuality in either the Dom role or the sub role. In general a switch can be regarded as a Dominant/Switch or a submissive/Switch. He/she will be primarily Dominant or submissive with a secondary orientation of the opposite. It’s very complex. Learning how to move easily and comfortably between both roles sometimes takes time. Most will never have the ability to actually flip flop in their sexual orientation. Normally there are periods where they will only derive satisfaction in dominating their lover and over time the need grows for them to be able to relinquish control whereby the switch is then entirely submissive for a time until they get it out of their system and vice versa.
Being a sub/Dom myself makes me familiar with what it feels like to be a submissive as well as a Dominant. Granted we are all unique, but I still have some understanding of what the state of dominating one’s will feels like which can certainly help me to identify with you if I am submitting you; which in turn can help me to create an environment where I can put you in the state that I want. I first learned I had a dominant side when a former Master expressed interest in being dominated by someone that he trusted. The prospect excited me and from the very first time that I took the reigns has never ceased to fulfill me in a way that only being submissive has not. I am thankful that I have had good Masters who were good teachers.
From my Master/my sub
Only within a trusting relationship can lovers encourage each other to continue to grow and experience new things within a safe environment, especially so within this lifestyle. It’s work like any aspect of a relationship, but well worth the effort.
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If you are more interested in the ideas and ideals expressed here, a good deal of the insight was gathered from these informative works:
http://xeromag.com/fvbdswitch.html (by Franklin Veaux) and
http://steel-door.com/switches.htm (by Mistress Steel)
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